Love and Relationship

“I Love You”. How strong can this sentence be?
For certain people, this could mean everything to them. Yes! It can be said occasionally. But, there are heavy responsibility buries beneath this word.

Back to the old fashion style of thinking: (Ignoring Interpersonal Love) to love someone is to respect his or her decision and pray for his/her blissful life. One might say “Go and live a happy life and find someone that is better than I am...”
All those words seem to be like an excuse after their failure, am I correct?
“My love for you is eternity”. Love cannot be eternity. Eternity means forever and ever. We cannot guarantee that the feeling of love will last forever. Even if the feeling can last, our love eventually will perish when we die. There is no more love left except for our remaining body.
“Love someone doesn’t need a reason”. Oh my god! I can’t imagine myself to love someone blindly and without even a single reason. I think there should have a thousand or even a million explanations in order to love a particular person. Even for a very simple explanation such as “I like her long hair” is still a reason. “Love someone doesn’t need a reason” is for the people that hardly think of any reason for them to love, therefore it leads to the old fashion style of answering questions.

Speaking about the benefit of loved and being loved, one tends to become more mature when they have encountered with this kind of situation. From there, they learned to please their partner, they learned how to protect and at the same time being protected by their partner, and to care for their partner as well as to be more considerate toward people’s feeling. One might also become gentler similar to the way they treat their partner.

Exactly, how does a person knows that he is actually felt in love with somebody? I believed that most people shared the same experience, which is “your heart beats faster when sees him/her”, “you want to see his/her face very often”, “you cannot live without him/her” and etc.
All these symptoms as above are true. To be more precise, when you see someone that you loved, you can feel that for that instant, the world goes still, so still and silent. You surrendered. The only focus on you is the beautiful lady or the handsome gentleman in front of you.
Sometimes, one’s actions betray them. One might deny the existence of love between them, but their brain kept on thinking of each other.

For certain people, they trusted 100% to the fate for them to meet with their special someone. Personally, I encourage people to always take the first step in whatever they want. If one really falls in love, they must really try their best in order to keep the one they love by their side. In my own word, I pronounced fate as “coincident” and actions as “success”.

However, confession is a different story. Confession is always a “duty” that is given to a man. Although it is not apply to every women, but majority of the women seems to be very fragile towards their failure after they confess.

Human's Emotions

First of all, when we talked about emotions, there are a few types: Joy, Anger, Sadness, Surprise, Trust, Fear, and Disgust. Of course there are many more but these are known as the basic emotion that human normally imposed.

Emotion itself is very unpredictable. Similar to the Hurricane Katrina, it come and goes out of the blue. Even with the single tick of the clock, one can encounter a dramatically change of his or her emotion depending on the current situation that hit them. Maybe this is too sarcarstic but it really occurs especially to the sensitive person.

Emotion is one of the factors that greatly altered human's decision. Normally, human will use each and every single of their brain cells to make decision. When there are no valid solutions, their feelings and experiences as well as their emotions on that particular period eventually take place. For that instance, the most righteous man can be bias even if they their decision is contradict with their morality.

Besides that, emotions itself teaches human how to love and being loved. This kind of feeling simply rise beneath us, without being alarmed. Some of them might have been fooled around by this kind of feeling, indicating there are some confusions that trobled them. Frankly speaking, it is good to confront with this kind of problems. Eventually, human learned to care and to love instead of living inside their own box and expelled from the world of humanity.

Human's Behaviors

Human is the most unpredictable living creature that stand in this planet. Sometimes, one's tend to believe that they understood what is crawling in one's mind. For me, that is an assumption or more accurately, it comes back to the probability. What is the probability of the accuracy of their assumptions? Therefore, it lead to the worse thought which is the sixth sense. Sixth sense, or more likely to be known as bullshitting have conquered their mind so much that they gave in everything they got in order to see the correctness of their expectation based from their sixth sense.

The existence of pros and cons is always be true on any action that human complied. Basically, human will not be so stupid to react on something that will brings negative effect nor harm to themselves. Taking politicians as an example, we do knew that they stands with reasons that is to help other people, but in the same time, they are benefited with other benefits. According to the Newton third law of motion, whenever there is an actions, there is reactions. This theory should not be applied only for the dead object, but also for the living creature like us, human as well. The same things applied to business. Businessmen is always looking forward for the benefits that they can gain before the making a deal.

As a human, we planned for almost everything in our daily life.There are no such things as coincident, but mis-planning that human made. Sometimes, we wondered... what is the motive behind the actions that taken by this person? We judged a person, but it is sad to say that, judgement is remain a judgement. We had to judge our judgement in the end and it looped infinitely. Lets take an example of the way we judge people. We can say that this particular person is innocent. How if the innocence of that particular person is one of theirs' planning?

Therefore, i concluded that guessing is the most reliable way for a human to make decision. Guessing may be correct based from the probability of 0.5 but it is much more better than u whisper to your ear alone and finally comes zero result of it. One's might have the knowledge for the human behavior and based from the knowledge, they judged accordingly. Finally, it still remain a judgement. Hence, imagination is strongly recommended. "Imagination is more important than knowledge"-Albert Einstein: is a very beautiful theory as it can applied in any circumstances.

It begins....

Hope sways,
Bias stays;
Living in the realm of the unreal,
When the truth reveal.

Working hard for the fruitless result,
Overcome the hatred, torture and insult;
The felling of curiosity ones' must steek,
Because truth is always the wrong answer to seek.

Hope and Prayer invites pessimistic,
Like an organization that turns into politic;
Opportunity become the topic for the race,
Determined the different status that ones' face,

Positive thinking is equal to lie,
The fact will remains till the day you die;
Issues that raised from day-to-day,
Time will devour it someday.